My lovely fiancee and I purchased a house last year which has utterly consumed my free time. Not that the house was in bad shape, but as a designer this is what happens when you get free reign over your environment. I recently found this new web community that caters to home design nuts like myself. If you're obsessive about your castle, then I highly recommend you check out www.houzz.com for ideas, inspiration and a network of equally passionate home owners and designers.